but the online quiz Chapman developed to test this forces people to pit the five love languages against one another. For example, people need to decide whether "holding hands" or "receiving gifts ...

The concept was introduced by Dr. Gary Chapman, a marriage counselor and author of the bestselling book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. With decades of counseling experience ...

The five love languages — gift-giving ... fans still visit Chapman’s website to take a test and figure out if they lean toward gift-giving, words of affirmation, physical touch, quality ...