Between a rock and a hard place? There’s many different parenting and co-parenting styles and ultimately you and your spouse have to decide what’s best for your home and family and it won’t always mirror what you, the kids, or the other parents want. In some homes they “nacho” meaning not yo kids. You’ll receive hate for that guaranteed from somewhere. In some homes they follow the mentality that the only steps in the house are the stairs. You’ll receive hate for that guaranteed from somewhere.